Why would a soul incarnate into abusive families?

Awareness 7 min read , June 18, 2023

Ahonu: This excerpt is from a 2-hour group Akashic Record session questioning why babies come into abusive families. The question was,

“Do babies know they’re being born into an abusive family?”

There was a lot of fun being had in the group setting, but we recognize its seriousness. We’ve removed the personal stuff too and left the nuggets. While this excerpt is about abusive families, later questions were about Indigo, Crystal and Rainbow Children and the world that they’re being born into. Remember, we recorded this in 2013, but the information is just as valid now as it was then. Enjoy and don’t forget to leave your comments about abusive families below.

Aingeal Rose: When I was saying the opening prayer I felt a group of beings come in and I felt this wonderful, beautiful breath, almost like fresh air. They were showing me babies. I saw little chains, little golden rings that connect all the babies.

It felt that they brought a new breath of God into the planet. It was almost like saying, yeah, this is why we keep having babies because they’re... you know, they bring a breath of God to the planet.

Okay, who wants to start? Ahonu, do you want to start?

Ahonu: How much certainty is attached to the ability of a child to pick its parents? What I mean specifically by that is, a spirit of a baby is hovering around saying, I have spotted the parent staring at me. There they are. They’re in Kimmage, Dublin 12, and I’m watching them and they’re at it, and I’m about to... Now, what I want to know... has that spirit baby earmarked that family? Does it say, if I incarnate into that family, I’m going to get these particular lessons or, I’m going to encounter these particular issues that I need to resolve myself, or if I have, let’s say, karmic issues with them, so I’m coming to fix the issues, or whatever.

Or, let’s say that couple hated each other in that moment, and she ran off, and he went off the other direction, or the husband came home, and the guy climbed out the window and down the drain. But let’s say the conception didn’t happen. So, would that spirit baby then go to China and say, I see a new mom; I see her!

Aingeal Rose: Yeah. It has to wait. So, what is the actual question?

Ahonu: How predetermined is it? The population has doubled in the last 30 years, so there’s probably plenty of choice for a baby not to be born into an abusive family, really.

Aingeal Rose: The soul knows before it’s going to be born who his parents are, and the parents know as well. That’s a contract that’s made well before the parents are born and before the child is born. They all know each other. Each soul knows the other soul. They all know each other. It isn’t random like that. It’s actually planned well ahead, and it’s planned from the other side who your parents are going to be, and what your soul contracts are going to be together, and what the best-case scenario is, abusive families or not. There’s a sense of inevitability around it, too, that if a mother finds herself pregnant, even though she may not want it, it’s still an inevitability. It’s all been prearranged.

Ahonu: Even if it’s into abusive families?

Aingeal Rose: Yeah, I’ll ask about a child being born into abusive families in a second. But contracts can be changed, too, but it is really mapped out from the other side. But then, anybody can change their mind about a contract anytime they want to. That would be a case where maybe a conception did not happen, or, let’s say the mother gets an abortion, changes her mind. You can change your mind. But what they are saying is that it isn’t an accident. The souls know each other before they come in.

Now, about kids coming into abusive families. It’s not that they want to be abused. But the child is actually, believe it or not, the stronger soul. The child is actually coming in to be a facilitator for the potential for healing for the parent who’s doing the abuse. There may be some cases where interesting karma is going on. But most often, the child is actually there to provide some type of healing energy to the situation.

That child is actually a strong soul because it’s putting itself in a situation where it knows it’s going to be hurt. But a soul would only choose that if it was strong enough to hold a particular energy to be the instigator of healing, so the abuser could be rehabilitated in some way. Even if the abusive parent doesn’t change and they don’t stop abusing, that innocent energy from that stronger soul was actually present in the family.

That soul can also come in to create a type of link with other siblings as well. So, it is donating a type of energy to the abuser that, even if the abuser can’t get it in that life, it offers a certain type of frequency to their energy field.

This is similar to how people would send absent Reiki to a higher self and it can hang out in their fields until they’re ready to accept it. It may not be this life, but that child is there to facilitate a type of healing, or to offer, or donate. They would have to be a powerful soul to even be willing to do that.

It’s interesting that most of these souls are angelic, so they have a purity about them that, on one hand makes them more vulnerable, but actually it’s the reason they’re stronger. Do you understand?

Unfortunately, though, because we forget when we come here that a child obviously is asleep, they don’t retain the memory of their contract, but they are providing healing energy to the soul, even if the soul can’t use it that life.

There are children who come into abusive families who have trauma to work through with certain individuals. So in those cases, you’d need to read their individual Akashic Records to see what the relationship is, but it would most likely be some unresolved past life they’ve had together.

We have to remember that love is always the origin. Love is always the underlying reason for any incarnation between souls. Even though a soul can go through a terrible experience, it knows before it arrives what it’s doing, even though we don’t see it.

Children that come in and out of the effect of abusive people can sometimes be simply a contract to change the law. Sometimes they’ll put themselves into abusive families just to have it discovered and publicized. It seems they know what they’re doing from a high level, even though they forget when they’re here.

Ahonu: But in that forgetting, that same child might go through huge adult traumas and difficulties, and because of that, does it know the price it has to pay?

Aingeal Rose: Well, it does. Remember that souls aren’t babies. Even if they come in as a baby, a soul really isn’t a baby. On one level, when you come here and you forget, yes, it looks very tragic for the soul who has donated themselves for that purpose. Obviously they don’t remember, and consequently can feel very damaged by it. But still when they return home, their mentors are saying,

“Well done, good job. It wasn’t as hard as you thought.”

There’s that bigger picture still. Because we don’t have all the information, we only see things from one level. It’s unfortunate that there are souls that are so tormented. Any abuser is a tormented soul. You’d have to know their past life history to understand how they got to the point they’re at.

But still in God’s creation, God loves the tormentor in abusive families just as much as the perceived victim. God wants everyone to return home and to know they’re loved, and that goes for everybody. We play difficult roles sometimes, and it’s unfortunate that souls are that way where you have to play those drastic roles.

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Ahonu: We hope you enjoyed that. It was a look into our personal group Akashic Record Meetings, which we have now begun again after the great pandemic and we’re resuming them again. Look to our website (https://worldofempowerment.com) to find the calendar for when these group Akashic Records happen.

Aingeal Rose: Yes, and we’re no longer in Dublin, Ireland, which is where that recording on abusive families was from. I hope this might spark some interesting conversation amongst people. Please leave a comment below.

Blessings and bye for now.

Abusive families - an Akashic Records session with Aingeal Rose & Ahonu
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